I won't say that I am a Brahms lover, for this sounds a touch kinky....however, as I remarked in a previous post, his symphonies are comfort food for me.
Most of my love of classical music stems from childhood memories of my parents' radio and vinyl choices. Whilst I drudged away hopelessly at the piano before abandoning it, almost completely, in my early 20's, my listening was passionately omnivorous. Brahms was a staple in my musical diet.
One lousy marriage and some hugely life-changing events later....I had moved abroad and began to replace all my old 'taped from the radio' and vinyl music with CDs and had the money to buy an excellent stereo. Brahms was a revelation. I agree that not one note is superfluous. Despite his 'Grand Old Man' appearance and grumpy reputation, if one reads about him, his comments are always light and full of humour. For example, referring to the second movement of the PC no. 2 as 'a little wisp of a scherzo!'
Recently, I have begun to delve into his choral music and find this to be perhaps the most extraordinary element of his oevre.
Anyway, definitely not hate!